Whisper to me, he said. I love to hear you whisper to me.
Something about the way you sound when you whisper just does it for me. This was what a client of mine said to me on the phone yesterday. In between breathy moans and erotic demands, his request really got me thinking. Whispering can be deeply arousing. Not only does it feel risky and secretive, which is exciting, but it can also have a hypnotic, relaxing factor to it as well. It all depends on the pitch of your voice and the individual you are whispering to.
Have you ever heard of ASMR? According to Wikipedia: “Autonomous sensory meridian response (ASMR) is a euphoric experience characterized by a static-like or tingling sensation on the skin that typically begins on the scalp and moves down the back of the neck and upper spine, precipitating relaxation.”
Really think about that. A whisper in the right ear can lead to a euphoric, tingling sensation? Yes please! Come whisper in my ear all the things you’ve been wanting to say to a woman but have never had the balls to do it.
Better yet, try to make me cum by just your ability to whisper! I’d be your devoted phone sex slut.
I bet you’re thinking right now- uhhhh, don’t you think it’s the other way around? Don’t you think it should be YOU who whisper’s in MY ear? Well, you’re right, phone sex lover. Let me whisper you to ecstasy. I want to make your whole body break out into goosebumps. I want you to feel my whisper as it slowly brings you to a state of true relaxation and arousal. Or, you know, you could do that for me. I deserve it after all.
The Wikipedia page goes on to say that a whisper combined with personal attention and intimacy can be a heady combination that can bring on and amplify full body sensations and reactions I can’t wait to practice this technique on my clients who are looking to experience a little something different than what they’ve grown accustomed to.