What is a cuckold & what are similar fetishes people often assume makes you a cuck?

Since I’ve been a phone sex operator I feel like it’s safe to safe I’ve heard it all…at least I think I have* One of the things I find frustrating is the mislabeling of fetishes/kinks. Think about my question for just a moment; what is a cuckold?

I’ve had my few share of men call saying they’re looking for cuckold phonesex and love the idea of watching their girlfriend or wife fuck other men. I always ask a few important questions before going into any roleplay. If a guy says “I want you to play my wife getting fucked by another dude, while I watch.” Often times I’ll follow up with, “Do you want to join in? Maybe help get the other guy’s cock hard?”

Half the time, yes half, the guy will say, “Nope, I just wanna watch. I don’t want to participate or touch the guy or be near his load.”  Guess what…you’re not a cuckold then. If you want zero interaction with the scene and only want to watch, then you’re what’s known as a voyeur.

Voyeurs love the idea of other men lusting after their hot wife/girlfriend. They want to see their partner enjoying themselves with another guy. When it comes to clean up time, a voyeur wants zero part of dining on that big creampie.

Cuckolds often believe they are not good enough sexually for their partners when it comes to sex. If you think you’re a stallion in bed but just like to watch…again you’re not a cuck. When you ask yourself what is a cuckold? I want you to remember whether you are or aren’t doesn’t make you less of a person or a man.

I want to give one example, my current relationship with a man who is very confident where sex is concerned. Hands down, best fucking lover I’ve ever had! When He told me he wanted to see me fuck other guys, instantly my mind thought he was a cuckold.

Guys, I have to admit I wasn’t fully into the idea of fucking around with other guys because for once, one guy can satisfy me all around. My boyfriend said he likes to push me to do things that make me uncomfortable and feel like a slut.

If you want to read all about what is coming up for me in my personal life with my new mystery side guy, check out my last blog. I miss you all and I am around to take phonesex calls all week!

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