BDSM and bondage in the beginning.

BDSM and bondage come in many forms. It can be as simple as handcuffing someone to your headboard all the way to 50 shades of grey. There is no right or wrong to BDSM and bandage. Its whatever you feel comfortable with. First, let’s start with a safe word. A safe word should be a word that you both come up with that has nothing to do with sex. This way you have an understanding that if that word is said you are to stop right then and there.

No Questions asked.

A safeword concerns BDSM and bondage sexual acts. In BDSM, begging to stop increases pleasure and reality. A safeword is used to actually mean “stop”, The safeword is usually a normal word, like “pink”, “banana”, or “door” and is determined before starting play. This way there is no confusion.

What do BDSM and bondage mean?

BDSM stands for bondage and discipline and sadism and masochism. This is why there should always be a safe word. People that get sexual pleasure from hurting another person. Some couples can handle more than others. This is why I recommend starting small and working up to your limits.

Most beginners start with bondage.

This is the easiest and can be the least painful but can also be as extree=me as cutting off someone’s circulation. Tying up or restraining your willing partner. The restraining is done by the dominant and the submissive is the one restrained. Now is the time to determine who is the Dom and who is the Sub. The person who dominates or controls the submissive, the person doing the tying up or whipping,

Now that you have determined all this its time to have some naughty fun.

Let’s start but tying up my partner. I grab my pantyhose and tie him to the headboard, Next, I take my leg separator restraints and place his legs in there. He is now secure and unable to move around. I began to blow him and right at the point of him cumming I stop, Getting up and walking away leaving him here to suffer for a little while. I return and do this several more time. Edging him to the point of orgasming then stopping. Maybe eventually I will let him cum. Or maybe not.

Ok, are you ready to get kinky now?

BDSM can have a wide variety of fun. We can have animal role play where I make him ack like a dog and when he shits on the floor I spank him and rub his nose in it then when he is a good boy I cover my pussy in peanut butter and let him have a snack. Being the dom I will have total control over him. Making him lay there while I pour hot candle wax all over his body. Sometimes I like to choke him until he turns blue and screams the safe word. Getting to the point of orgasm I like to slap him in the face really hard when I cum. Sometimes I even use my whip to do it. The red marks stay for hours.

I have even been known to leave bruises on him.

Fisting is also one for my favorites BDSM and bondage acts. I will make him get on all 4s and ties him up that what so his ass is nice and open for me. Beginning with my vibrator I slide it in and out going harder faster and deeper with each thrust. When he least expects it I shove my fist in his ass, I’m not sure how he felt in the start of it. He begged me to stop but never gave me the safe word.

His begging and crying turned me on.

It made me fist him harder. Are you ready for some hot steamy phone sex now? Call me and we can play whatever fantasy you want and you can make me you little cum whore slut tonight. And remember BDSM and bondage is all fun and games until someone screams the safe word.

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