A short guide to how to make your lady cum in 15 minutes, rather than never.
With 15 minutes on the clock, you have a lot to do in a short amount of time, but I believe in you!
At Least 3 of your minutes needs to be devoted to kissing. And no I don’t mean just her mouth, kiss her neck too. Switch between the two so one doesn’t get desensitized. Now you need to get coordinated. Each time you kiss her neck, remove another item of her clothes. Not only is this an important time saver in your 15-minute window, but it lets you combat any body-confidence issues. Compliment your partner on each part of her body as you undress it. Your approval will dramatically reduce her self-consciousness.
With 12 minutes it’s time to start teasing her.
Make sure she’s almost completely naked, but her panties are still on. Play with her from outside of her panties, rather than just going straight for it. Focus on building anticipation rather than going straight for direct stimulation. Feeling that you don’t have a lot of time keeps a woman from reaching orgasm. Act like you’ve got forever, but then peel off her underwear and use some nice scented lube. Move your fingers in slow, circular motions just inside her vagina. Stimulate that G-spot.
5 minutes down, 10 minutes to go. Start eating that pussy!
With one hand, pull up her clitoral hood, Then lick from side to side across its base, just above her clitoris. Place one finger of the other hand on her perineum (the area directly below the opening of her vagina). When you can feel her pre-orgasmic contractions, you’ll know you’re doing it just right.
7 minutes left, penetration
Avoid deep, thrusting, and instead, try something slower. Start in the classic missionary then pull back so the base of your penis rests on her clitoris. Brace your feet against the foot of the bed and rock backward and forwards rather than thrusting. Your penis gently massages her clitoris, which is great for her but also gives you slow, pulsating sensations that you control. You can also just go for all of her spots. Simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation is the quickest and easy way to get her to orgasm. Having her from behind is a good option for this also because while you’re fucking her, you can also use toys.
The last minute. The final stretch, you’re almost there champ!
By now, your girl should be clawing at the sheets, but don’t be mistaken in thinking you need to switch things up and go for a finishing move. Women hate too much changing of techniques. It’s distracting and takes our arousal all the way back the beginning. You wouldn’t want to start over before you reach the finish line, would you? When you start doing something she reacts positively to, keep doing it, dude! At the exact same speed and pressure.
Congratulations man, You’ve made your woman cum in 15 minutes. Pat yourself on the back, and grab some water. You deserve it.