We all have our rituals.  Rituals are an important part of the human existence. They can bring meaning and comfort to any banal, every day activity. For me, and I doubt I’m alone on this, I have a ritual for when I masturbate. I have a set pattern for what I do when its just me, my sex toys and my dirty fantasies that brings me to ecstasy every single time.  Sure, I get off all kinds of different ways.  I’m a very frisky girl.  I orgasm on a couple calls each day or sometimes even just tuck into a public restroom for a “quickie” while I’m out running errands.  However, my ritual is how I do it when I really want to take the time to please myself.  It is a special orgasmic luxury to masturbate.
First things first, I need to be comfy and horny. I strip off all my clothes and run my hands over my body, getting connected with my sensual side. Â I slip into bed, clothes my eyes and let my mind wander. Â I fantasize about my lovers and about people I hardly know. Â I think about the sexiest filthiest calls I’ve had recently and play them out in my mind. Â This gets me nice and wet; I don’t even need porn. I run my hand down between my legs to feel how wet my pussy is. Â Usually, by this point, its usually dripping. Â When I get turned on, there’s an immediate flood down below. Â I slide two fingers into my pussy and then use my juice and lube to rub my clit. Â I’ve been told I have a pretty big clit, and as I rub it, it grows hard and prominent.
Once I’m nice and turned on, I clamp clothes pins onto my nipples. I have very sensitive nipples, and whenever I camp them I feel butterflies fly all the way into my clit.  In short, it makes me squirm and drives me wild.  Next I pull out a small-ish vibrator and work my clit, and my pussy and finally I shove it into my ass. I then grab my large plug-in vibrator, and with my own pussy juice for lube, I rub my clit in nice slow circles.  This makes my body arch in pleasure.  I try to embrace every sensation and let them over-take me. When I feel close, I re-clem my nipples to get a fresh rush of wonderful pain, and set my vibrator on its highest setting.  The feelings are so intense, I feel as if I might burst.  I cum a river every time, and then need a few minutes just lying quietly as I recover.
What is your ritual when you masturbate?  I’d love to hear about it. Then, maybe we can help each other achieve that intense, overwhelming orgasm together.
