Phone Sex 2.0: How to Get The Most Out of Your Encounter

Phone sex can be taken to various degrees of ecstasy.  How do you get the most out of your encounter with your significant other, random smash, or PSO?

The Signifianct Other

There are several people that simply wish to connect with their partner from a distance.  The urge hits you and you want to share that taste of victory with someone.  It doesn’t mean that you are lonely, or desperate.  So, get that out of your head.  It simply means that you desire to feel that person that you long for.  Phone sex is an excellent way to bridge the gaps of distance and time.

My Bo and I are like two ships passing in the night.  If we lived in the same household or even the same city, some of that sexual tension and frustration would be non-existent.  So, we FaceTime in the shower, mutually masturbate and send random words of encouragement throughout the day.

I can hold an entire conversation with Memes but that simply isn’t part of his generation.  Simply using my words isn’t enough for me.  I need to emulate proximity.  So we picked out a dildo that resembles his beautiful cock.  He needs to hear me authentically moan, whimper, lose my breath, and hyperventilate off the goodness that his energy brings.

The Random Smash

Phone sex with a random smash can be a bit awkward.  As mention in my last blog: Phone Sex 101: How to Have Phone Sex, communication and trust must be established.  Don’t worry, you can be as disrespectful as you wish as you throw that cock, if that is what turns you on.  Some of us enjoy verbal abuse.  There are tons of things that aren’t sexual that stimulate and cause arousal.  Send your random smash a picture of a creampie and have them describe every facet of it without saying creampie.  Tell em’ to make it kinky because you are feeling a bit naughty.

Texture, is everything to a woman.  That is why we go crazy over bubble baths, hair conditioners, silky-satin undergarments, and the veins in your cock.  Investigate, and take a few moments to study your random smash.  Listen to his/her breathing.  Watch how their word preference changes up. Check for their comfortability level by pushing the envelope.  Use songs and things tried and true.

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The Paid Help

Much like the random smash, more investigation and context clues must be presented to establish chemistry.  The difference in phone sex between the random smash and your phone sex operator (PSO) is that he/she/they are no taboo in a safe space catered to your untapped perversions.  A good PSO will drag the dirtiest and filthiest of desires out of you and make you confront them. Unless you want to turn her out.  Which is normally the case with me.

You picked this heaux.  So pick right!  Don’t ask me (your PSO), if it is okay to call me a whore!  Get your #telephonicrelief!  Scream, shout, bust your nut, and then hang up on me.  Just don’t forget to call me back the next time you need your balls drained.  That’s an order!

You are dealing with a telephonic relief artist, so ask for a storytime, play out your favorite fantasy, or put on a show for me!  Yeah, you heard me right! You cam for me; not the other way around.  Make sure you call me and have all the props ready.  I want to see you play with my cock.  I own that wood now.  I’m your new girlfriend, some come have some girlfriend phone sex with me.