Phone Sex 101: How to Have Phone Sex? Heaux Edition

Phone sex is the most underrated form of relief.  Simply contact someone that mutually wants to bust via the telephone and let your creativity flow in a kinky direction.  Consent is everything both physically and in your telephonic relief session. Not everyone is comfortable with talking about taboo topics, sharing their most intimate effects, and letting you in their sexual fantasies.

Be open to phone sex.  Set your parameters.  Communicate everything.  Like a teacher that used to be in the classroom that has now gone virtual, utilizing proximity is no longer acceptable.   So, use your words to create a vivid picture.  Be a foley artist!

Texture, sound, synonyms, adjectives, parables, and such are very helpful.  Don’t just say that I want to dominate you.  Show me how you will dominate me.  Adjust your tone of voice.  Be aggressive, assertive, and stand in your power.  Do not ask me, tell me.

Stay in Character

Be a heaux.  If you are a cum slut, don’t sound disgusted when he says here it goes and spackles streams of seminal fluid all over your imaginary face.  When you agree to be the bottom, don’t switch and be bratty.  Please whimper, whine, cry, breath hard, pout, dag-gone-it! Get into it!

If you are not into it, the other person can tell.  It doesn’t matter that you aren’t in the same space.  Your voice and the energy will shift.  Keep it interesting.  Actively listen for context clues.  Do not wait for instructions on things that you know fall within the realm of your role-play.  Play, and play some more.  Try this and that.  Ease up when you feel the shift, and stay on topic.  Many of us have trigger words, so press that button.

Push My Button

Speaking of buttons, use code language during phone sex.  That clit could be a vending machine button that just won’t give you your stuff when you are having trouble reaching victory.  That same clitoris could also be a pearl/piano key/devil’s doorbell/butter bean/love button/sweet spot…Synonyms are great, just make sure that the person on the recipient end is familiar with the terminology.

Analogies in phone sex, fall under the same rules as synonyms.  As a child, my vagina was referred to as my “daisy.” When I started my menses I said, “my daisy is wilting.” This is common when speaking of the bathroom and alleviation of our bodily excrements.  The utilization of epithets becomes drastically important.

Dialogue about your fetish and what intrigues you with your operator or partner.  If you are into anal stretching but not necessarily toilet play and detest anything dealing with fecal matter; then say so.  Many people love the idea of fisting, anal stretching, and the such, but cannot stomach scat or physical abuse.  Being honest about your limits, desires, and needs is essential to good phone sex.

What’s Your End Game?   

Having a goal in mind is great, but not necessary.  I do it for the energy.  I feed off of your victory.  Much like a succubus, I am fed by your excitement.  So much so, that I bathe in it, and feel high by it.  Most partners could care less if you busted.  They want theirs, so be aware of what the end game is.  Are you here to please, get paid, or take what is yours?

Cum play with me (Mistress Titty Shots) on the Phone Sex Kingdom.  We are always top of the charts on the Letterboard and Phone Sex Central.  Don’t waste your time debating it.  We’ve been around since the ’90s and know how to put a bit of pep in your step.  Do you still have questions about what is phone sex? Call this heaux for pricing and telephonic relief.