Fetishes vs. fantasies a letter from a client.
Fetishes vs. fantasies, Dear Eve, I am emailing you today because I am well aware that my husband is a frequent client of yours. I am going to start off by saying that I do not have a problem with this. He is very happy with you and all of your naughty conversations. I am going to give you a little bit of a background on my life. I grew up in a very strict Italian Catholic home.
My parents are very private people and sex was never and I mean never discussed in our house growing up.
If my parents ever had sex my brother or I never knew when it was going on. So to say my husband and I have a very vanilla sex life. I want to change this. The movie 50 shades of gray is a little more than I can handle. I need help working my way up to that. I love my husband to death and I have no doubt in my mind that he loves me also.
My husband took my virginity and he has been the only man I have ever been with.
He has mentioned to me before that you will talk about anything with him. You have no limits as far as satisfying his fantasies and fetishes. To be honest I didn’t know there was a difference when it came to fetishes vs fantasies. My husband has talked about me joining in on a call with you and him to listen to what we talk about and then maybe I can start talking dirty with him. Please help because I do want to do this for him. Signed Dazed and Confused.
Well, this is a very easy fix, here is my reply to fetishes vs. fantasies.
Dear Dazed and Confused, I agree with your husband that the first step would be a phonesex call. Maybe the first time you can listen to us talk and then the second call I would really like you to join in and be part of the call. You just have to remember that this is just talking. You do not have to do anything you are not comfortable with. We can start out with a basic threesome call and take it from there. I can do most of the initiation of the scenarios.
Since you have had no experience in any of this it will probably seem uncomfortable and awkward at first but it will get easier with time.
You will not be judged. I had to start out somewhere also. I was not always this kinky. As far as fetishes vs. fantasies, here are the basics.
Fetishes are described as an object that turns people on.
It can be anything from body parts to objects or clothing. The most common of these for the body parts is the foot fetish. A lot of people get turned on by feet. Some like sexy smell good feet. Others prefer the hot sweaty out of the gym shoe feet. Clothing object fetishes are most likely women’s panties. Trust me there are many guys out there that like to wear their wife’s panties.
The number would shock you. Then there are also diaper fetishes. Yep, you read that right. Diaper fetishes. That one I’m sure is self-explanatory. Naughty scat play is something that almost goes hand and hand with the diaper fetish. For the real shocker comes the objects. There are actually people out there that actually get turned on by objects. Objects such as roller coasters and airplanes. They dream about making love to these objects. Yes, this is a real thing. Don’t believe me? Google it.
Fantasies are the opposite of reality.
Everyone has fantasies. Whether it be a fantasy about winning the lottery and hiring as a maid to come to clean your house every day or having bigger boobs or your husband having his cock a couple of inches longer. All of that is considered a fantasy. A sexual fantasy might be a threesome or being bisexual. This is not a reality for them but they do have fantasies about it. I hope this helps you understand things a little more. And I cant wait to talk to you at phone sex kingdom.